Flying solo this Valentine’s? Perfect. No awkward dinners, no pressure, no panic buying gifts, just you, your pleasure, and exactly the kind of night you feel like having.

My favourite Solo Pleasure Products

Womanizer Premium 2: If there is one thing you do for yourself this year...get this clitoral suction toy! Arguably the BEST c-sucker on the market, there's a reason it comes with a high price tag. From the moment you turn it on, you won't regret it. Start on the low and gentle settings, build up slowly and for an even better time, run a warm bath, light some candles, submerge this toy and get ready to see the stars!

YES Organic Clitoral Oil: This pleasure product is the perfect friend for any c-sucker. It is designed to arouse and heighten sensation and when used in conjunction with a toy it allows you to get creative, making any toy feel brand new! Use a teeny tiny amount on your finger, apply to your Clitoris, add the toy and the rest is better left unsaid.

Casual hookup buddies, friends with benefits, or maybe an undefined relationship. Whatever you call it, right now it might defy definition but you can still plan a fun flirty date that celebrates your sexual compatibility.

Why These Pleasure Products?

Exens Gift Set: These are mini edible lubes. They are warming when added to skin which aids in heightening sensation and arousal. It is a great way to add enthusiasm to foreplay and oral play. Add it to lips to spice up kissing, or use it on the genitals watch how you absolutely blow their mind.

Perfect Pair: This is a perfect place to start for exploring partner play with a sex toy. This can be used as a finger vibe which you can use to spice up positions, or as a penis ring! One toy, multiple ways to explore.

Early in relationship curiosity isn't something you need to think about much because it is there in abundance. When you learn to be curious with each other from the start, you’re not just having fun in the moment, you’re building the skills that help your intimacy go the distance.

Why these toys are a must!

Dame Massage Oil: Think of this as foreplay in a candle. Light the candle, let it burn and it won't be the only thing getting hot! This silky massage oil invites you to slow down, get playful with touch, and awaken the senses. The perfect way to prepare the body and mind for intimacy that feels exciting and seriously satisfying.

We-Vibe Temp: Feeling Hot and Cold in a relationship doesn't usually feel good, except using this baby! the we-vibe temp uses warming and cooling sensations to awaken the body and turn every touch into a playful, sensory experience. Add it to the oil from massage candle and get ready to blow your partners body and mind!

Every long-term relationship needs a little novelty now and then. New sensations and shared discoveries can bring back the spark, reminding you both that there’s always more pleasure, curiosity and fun to explore together.

These are my go to, and here's why...

We Vibe Sync 2 There is a reason this toy is voted the best couples toy by users almost every year! Made perfectly for couples, the We-Vibe Sync 2 delivers shared sensation that keeps you connected. Its flexible fit stays comfortable during intimacy, so you can both enjoy the buzz. Remember, and think less about thrusting back and forth and more about moving in slow, sensuous circles.

Water-based Lube: When you are using a toy during penetration, lube is essential! Not just for comfort, this combo will change your life!

Sometimes the biggest shifts in pleasure come from the smallest changes. Adjusting the angle, depth or pace of a familiar position can bring fresh energy into the moment, turning something routine into something exciting

Why these toys are a must!

Sex Pillow: A sex pillow is a simple upgrade that makes a big impact, sure you can use a regular bed pillow however, a purpose-built sex pillow is firm, supportive and shaped to hold its structure, helping you find better angles with less effort. It lifts, tilts and supports your body in all the right ways! An essential for every bedroom!

Finger Vibe: A finger vibrator is small, discreet and made to stay put, so you can get as playful and acrobatic as you like without worrying about it flying across the room. It keeps everything hands-on and natural, while adding the clitoral stimulation many women need, boosting the chances of orgasm with a partner from around 18% to over 70%! It's a must!