Get Turned On to Good Porn
All you have to do is watch a few minutes of mainstream porn to realize that it sends a very particular message. Mainstream porn is designed for quick pleasure. It’s all about the exaggerated images, the right angles, the over-the-top moans, the drama…It’s cinematic on purpose…It wants to bring you to arousal and climax quickly.
In our modern world just as we have become increasingly conscious about what we are consuming, turning from fast food to organic labels and fast fashion to sustainable brands, we are equally becoming mindful in how we approach sex.
Eroticism blooms from the tension between excitation and inhibition and manifests in the things we say and do, by how we act, how we think and what we consume influences that.
We tend to think of eroticism as a sexual state shared by two or more people, but really, it starts with the individual. And it first requires discovery and exploration and then demands practice. And here is the biggest thing,
Eroticism isn’t sex; it’s sexuality transformed by the human imagination.
When we engage consciously with Porn, it can be an incredible resource to expand your sexual imagination. It can be a way to safely explore hidden desires, like kink or BDSM, figure our what you like, what you don’t like, it can be a source of education that teaches you new positions, techniques for performing oral sex or creative ways to discover your own erotic landscape.
Below is a list of different kind of porn…can we call it Healthy porn? New wave, ethical, sex positive, consensual with a focus on women’s pleasure. Each, in their own unique way, powerfully celebrate sex it’s raw, real, natural state. Conscious porn is a deliberate attempt to show all the good stuff that we love about sex – intimacy, laughter, connection and real pleasure while also enhancing and exploring fantasy.
When we widen our imagination we widen the realm of the senses, and when we do that we invite the world in. A sure fire way to add some excitement to your sex life, solo or in partnership…
Enjoy the discovery
Jenny x
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Xconfessions Subscription | €30/mo Founded by Barcelona-based adult filmmaker Erika Lust, XConfessions is a place for crowdsourced erotic indie films that are based on real-life stories and sexual fantasies submitted anonymously. Each month, Lust and her team adapt two of those stories into short erotic films that you can stream online. For people interested in something feature-length, Lust launched Lust Cinema, which focuses on longer narratives and more-complex story lines paired with modern, high-quality cinematography. This is probably my go to site when I want to expand my sexual creativity. |
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Dispea.com Subscription | About €9/mo If you’re not a visual person—or you’re the type who prefers a podcast over a movie—Dipsea is a female-founded audio-only app that offers audio erotica and sexual-wellness content. There are hundreds of highly produced original audio stories that range from ten to twenty minutes, and the appeal is that there’s a scenario for any mood. A quiz helps you find what’s right for you, whether you want to step up your self-pleasure, increase intimacy with your partner, or listen to something more chill than hot and heavy. The audio quality is unmatched, and the app feels like you’re browsing Headspace rather than Pornhub…Some of the stories are narrated by people who just seem to purr in your ear! Meow! |
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frolicme.com Subscription | Free to read Porn that you can read. So much of mainstream porn is centred around the body and the act of sex rather than the storytelling or the emotions. We all love a good story and because sex is both physical and mental, erotic literature can be a great way to stimulate your mind (and with the right toy...or a good hand, your body). At Frolic Me, stories are written by top erotic authors. There are full-length films to go with every story for a truly immersive experience…but I personally have only read the stories… If you are looking for inspiration for sexting…look no further :) |
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Make Love Not Porn Subscription | MakeLoveNotPorn is Pro-sex. Pro-porn. Pro-knowing the difference. The world’s first user-generated, human-curated social sex video-sharing platform, celebrating real world sex as a counterpoint to porn, with the aim of making it easier for everyone to talk about, in order to promote good sexual values. The videos are submitted by real couples, real people and celebrate real world bodies – including all the accidents, awkwardness and messiness. Andddd if you ever fancied starring in a Porn movie well, you can become a MakeLoveNotPornstar right here..I have to say, I have been very tempted! Ha! |
Happy reading,
I would adore if you wanted to comment below to add your favourites…
Jenny x
