Best Sex Toys For Couples

Incorporating sex toys into your relationship can be a fantastic way to enhance intimacy, explore new sensations, and strengthen your bond. Whether you’re curious about trying something new or looking to reignite the spark, sex toys can add a fun and exciting dimension to your love life. Here’s a comprehensive guide for couples looking to introduce sex toys into their relationship.

Benefits of Sex Toys for Couples

Before diving into the practical tips and recommendations, it’s important to understand why using sex toys can be beneficial for couples. Here are just a few benefits:

1. Enhanced Pleasure: It's good to know that sex toys will never replace the human experience. I always like to say toys are tools and what sex toys can provide is additional stimulation that might be difficult to achieve manually, leading to more intense and varied sensations.
2. Increased Intimacy: You might be surprised to know that The Kinsey Institute reported 77% of couples who incorporate sex toys into their relationship feel closer and more intimate with their partner. The shared experience of exploring new sensations can strengthen emotional bonds.
3. Better Communication: According to a survey conducted by Adam & Eve, 60% of couples who use sex toys together report improved communication about sexual desires, needs and boundaries.
4. Breaking Routine: Let's face it, we are creators of habits. It is NORMAL after a period of time that couples get into a routine in their sex life. Introducing toys can be a simple way of breaking those habits and helps to keep the excitement alive in relationships, particularly long term relationships.
5. Exploration and Discovery: Toys are a great way to help couples discover new sensations, different erogenous zones, varied orgasms and even new kinks!

Introducing the right Toy for you and your partner

Introducing the sex toy that is right for you and your partner really depends on what turns you both on, what kind of stimulation and pleasure you each like best and what you are hoping to explore. If this is where you are stumped, download my guide on how to choose the right sex toy for you. It is packed full of questions that will help you narrow down what toy is best suited to the experience you want to have. 

If you already have your toy and don't really know how to incorporate it into your sexy bedtime routine read my Tips For Introducing Sex Toys into your relationship here.

Any Toy can be a Couples Sex Toy

Any toy can be a couples sex toy. Although certain toys are marketed specifically as couples toys while others are marketed for women only the only limit to how you can use your sex toy is your imagination. This is where education can come in really handy. It means that if you have a few ways you can explore using the same toy you don’t have to go out and buy a new one every time you want a different experience - which in this economy is a good thing! 

Here's a quick overview:

• Handheld vibrators work well, especially ones with ergonomic handles for easy manoeuvring: 
• Wand vibrators allow sensual, full-body massage during foreplay, then targeted vibration on the clit, vulva, or nipples during sex. 
• Clitoral sex toys like clit suckers mimic the feeling of oral which can be used during mutual masturbation or penetrative sex
• Panty vibrators with remote controls can be a fun way to experiment with public play.
• Cock rings are considered "wearable toys" so if you want something tailored to partnered sex you should specifically look for these wearable toys (these include toys like dual-ended vibrators, strap-on dildos, etc) the reason these are popular during partnered play is because they don’t require adjusting once you’re in the moment. 

As you can probably tell, if you’re looking to try something totally new — or want some help mixing things up in the bedroom — there are plenty of clever, innovative sex toys designed specifically for couples. The Oh Moment Sex Toy Store was designed to be a store full of my personal recommendations. I’ve been on the sex-toy road for a long time now and I know what toys are great, what toys take a little getting used to and that new toys with all the technology aren’t always the best option so to save you the trouble of trying out a bunch of duds, I rounded up some of my favourites AND asked real people to share their go-to couples sex toys and how they use them.

Jenny xx

Novelty is one of the key ingredients for keeping sexual satisfaction alive in long-term relationships. When foreplay becomes predictable, it’s easy to bump intimacy down the priority list, especially when sleep or the latest series feels more tempting. But shaking things up doesn’t have to mean going to the extremes and getting the whips and chains out. A playful, pleasure-focused date night can do wonders.

Try this popular trio: 

Spritz a couples pheromone spray to boost attraction, nibble on aphrodisiac chocolates to get the blood pumping and heart racing, and dive into our Connect Cards game to ask each other sexy, curiosity-sparking questions. Together, they create an erotic environment that invites connection, laughter, and desire.

Couples Pheromone Spray

Pheromones are natural chemical signals that trigger social responses in others, most commonly known to trigger sexual responses and arousal. They are often linked to attraction, confidence, and emotional connection. Not all pheromone spray on the market is made equal. A lot of them are just essential oils infused scents. This brand is backed by science and amplifies your body's natural signals. This is fun to add to a date night, spray before you go for dinner and see where the night takes you.

Aphrodisiac Chocolates

These tasty treats are infused with ingredients that work to boost desire, arousal, and the mood. Now they aren't drugs so while they will not change your brain chemistry you may definitely feel your cheeks flush and tingles in places you want!

For couples, aphrodisiac chocolates are an easy, sensual way to bring a little flirtation into the evening. Share a piece slowly, feed each other, or make it part of a playful tasting ritual. Pair them with a sexy playlist, a few slow kisses, or a game of asking each other intimate questions (hello, Connect cards!) and you’ve just turned dessert into foreplay.

Connect Intimacy Cards

Created by yours truly, the Couples Connect Cards are designed to turn ordinary conversations into intimate, exciting exchanges. Whether you’ve been together for months or years, these cards help you explore everything from fantasies and turn-ons to emotional connection and communication styles. Think of them as your personal sex and relationship coach in a box—each question is crafted to spark curiosity, build trust, and open up conversations you might not normally have. Perfect for date nights, pillow talk, or moments when you feel a little disconnected, the Connect Cards are a playful yet powerful way to deepen your bond and bring more fun, honesty, and erotic energy into your relationship.